Usually, patience becomes shorter when
emotions have been building up for a long time underneath. Especially when someone feels: unheard, uncertain, emotionally unsafe,
dismissed, orr constantly waiting for reassurance and clarity.
A lot of people think patience is just personality, but often it is connected to emotional exhaustion. If you keep trying to communicate calmly while feeling confused or hurt inside, eventually your reactions become stronger because your heart is already carrying too much.
And being a girl does not mean you must always be endlessly patient, soft, or emotionally composed. You are still human. You can love deeply and still reach your emotional limit.
im sorry couldn't love you the way you wanted all the time ....
